It's happened!

[reags]

Exactly, others have sympathized with your situation. It's just that when other opinions are expressed that don't parallel yours, you become overly defensive and think we're against you.

Anyway hope the dimple/dent whatever you want to call it works out for you and your strive for social perfection reigns supreme.

[Palo Verde]

Actually one can live a very happy and productive life without shouting screaming yelling and raising their voices to another in a public place, but oh it must be very difficult for people of a certain culture to live a happy and productive life without doing all that.

[julessp23]

Hmmm well I had a "good old Aussie bloke" hit my SP23 this week.
I have never had a scratch on my car in 2 years.
Its only a small one. Basically, I was merging on Epping road ahead of him. Came into the lane and was ahead of him. He then took offence to this and then accelerated forward to get around me and get in front. In doing so his bumper just touched the side of my car.
He was going to drive off but I pulled the handbrake to check and told him to pull over because he had scratched my car. We pulled over and exchanged details.
He said straight out if you make an issue of this I will say you pushed in and scratched my car and deny everything. Plus such a small claim can affect you insurance - i think this is true.
So guess who is wearing the cost of this? Yep me.
Just goes to show that people don't have to rant and rave and a-holes can be from anywhere.

[Kikuchi]

That's bs, because if u were in a merging lane, it is his responsibility to give way to you. He is still at fault.

And PV suck it up. Sick of hearing you diss peoples culture especially asians all the time. If you don't want anything to do with asians, I suggest going to a country town and stay there. Then you can act like a "civilised" asian wherever you go, and hopefully you won't have access to the net.

[Palo Verde]

kikuchiz I think you are wrong I never diss azns, I was merely pointing out these are the things this group of people need to improve on.

Are you implying that azns are such perfect beings that they have nothing to improve on? far from it. some of the worse behaviors are displayed by them most times.

I am sick of such experiences myself. I wished I never had to deal with another rude azn but unfortunately they are everywhere, this is something they need to improve on, manners and respect for others.

You cannot be serious in asking people to let others abuse and yell at them in a street full of people and tell the victim to suck it up. This is encouraging others to continue to harass the victim.

[SehnKhan]

peeps after I had picazz the damage piccies for all to see, not one member except one member only suggested a repair place.
Any ideas? prices, what of the damage?
(pronounced DA_MA-J )

Dude... the amount of times you've damaged your cars over the years, surely by now you've tested every repair centre in the Sydney. Pick the one you remember best!

What happened to your car, and the subsequent actions of the childs parents may have been unpleasant, but welcome to life... suck it up and move on already.

[Palo Verde]

actually sehnKhan, the damage I experienced over the years are mainly huge damage insurance claims, and for the record, most of it was not even my doing, just like this incident, again not my doing.

And for the record, I had never had this kind of dimple-like dents where some could DIY to fix and some call contractors to do the repair but all of my repairs in the past had been insurance funded and big jobs.

This is not a big job. Therefore I have no experience in this kind of damage.

And for the record again, none of the damages I experienced in the past had resulted being abused and ridiculed in a public street. I suggest that this sort of incident should occur more regularly to members and we will then see if they would suck it in.

[Apples]

actually sehnKhan, the damage I experienced over the years are mainly huge damage insurance claims, and for the record, most of it was not even my doing, just like this incident, again not my doing.

And for the record, I had never had this kind of dimple-like dents where some could DIY to fix and some call contractors to do the repair but all of my repairs in the past had been insurance funded and big jobs.

This is not a big job. Therefore I have no experience in this kind of damage.

And for the record again, none of the damages I experienced in the past had resulted being abused and ridiculed in a public street. I suggest that this sort of incident should occur more regularly to members and we will then see if they would suck it in.

I've had to put with a person who was abusive to me when they ran up be back of me...
I never whinged about it for a few days to an online forum either.

All i did was just not my head at them, get their details and leave. What's the point, the person is obviously an idiot, plus they are the one's who will be paying.

So seriously, just stop having a damn cry. Life isn't all easy going. Get it repaired and get over it.

[Palo Verde]

well at least you got their details in the end mission accomplished so those abused were worth it.

I not only did not get any details, but also got abused very loudly in the entire street which lasted over 30 minutes.

Despite all that, still was not able to get any details. Maybe insurance companies should send their claims people out on the street for abuse hurled at for more than 30 minutes loudly in front of the public and see if they can get details off the other party.

This details obtain is only possible if both parties are cooperative.

If one refuse to cooperate and in this case do not have a car where I can record a rego, there is shit ginseng root you can do, they can walk away and you cannot even touch them. That is the law.

[Apples]

All you need is car rego plate, make and model. Anything else they just like to have. All of what you need can be gathered without their consent

[Palo Verde]

apples you obviously have not read this thread at all.

This was a minor holding a trolley that smashed into my genki on a footpath, the older man was walking on the footpath just like the kid. So where is the rego? Where is the make and model?

I don't suppose you are asking me to check where the trolley was made and if the trolley was registered in the state of NSW for supermarket use?

In my case, you do have to obtain the contact details of the person as there was no other car involved, just people and trolley.

[seksyjinke]

Hey PV... can i say something...

awesome read ay... but dont worry about it... that stupid a55hole can die, probly get murdered with thos $100's in the bag...

TBH.... that dent can be fixed for about $90-$150 garanteed...

provided there is no paint damage or paint crack...

meaning PDR just go and pop it out from the inside using special tools..

google PDR and find ur nearest PDR contractor

good luck

[Palo Verde]

thanks jinke I will check paintless Dental Repair to see what can be done.

[Kikuchi]

kikuchiz I think you are wrong I never diss azns, I was merely pointing out these are the things this group of people need to improve on.

Are you implying that azns are such perfect beings that they have nothing to improve on? far from it. some of the worse behaviors are displayed by them most times.

I am sick of such experiences myself. I wished I never had to deal with another rude azn but unfortunately they are everywhere, this is something they need to improve on, manners and respect for others.

You cannot be serious in asking people to let others abuse and yell at them in a street full of people and tell the victim to suck it up. This is encouraging others to continue to harass the victim.

in sayin what you have said, you are already implying that most asians display some of the worse behaviours. I got harrassed by a hill billy truckie yesterday, did I go on omc, have a cry about white bogans? rude asians are everywhere? so you are saying I'm a rude asian. Since i'm an asian, and part of "everywhere". you speak of asians as "they", grouping all of us together.

some people on omc may get sucked up in your attention seeking, but you don't humour me at all. if you're not crying about some asian ruining your life, it's about some corporation or other. i don't usually get annoyed by people stepping over the racism line, but you take the cake pv. purely by the amount of times that you do step over the line. that and you are asian yourself. you must be disgraced lol.

[Palo Verde]

you are correct I am totally ashamed that as you said "my kind" behave like that to each other. And that is precisely why I raise it as an issue. Although too there are many types of azn from different parts of asia so again that is generlisation however I did say Cantonese as I was specific about the behavior of shouting yelling and cussing people loudly in the public as something most people do not tolerate, not just PV

And whether PV ate the cake, took the cake or had the face smashed with cakes, the fact remains that this cantonese man yelled and abused me for over 30 minutes in a public street, and it is not fair for you to defend that sort of anti social behavior. I will not stand for it. Whether azn or not and he happened to be azn and other members provided similar examples of having difficulties in dealing with azn when faced with situations where the car was damaged by these people, we hear examples from Sallz, Dark and Psyonic so really this is not something I made up, it is a fact and it appears you think Azn are so perfect that cannot have any fault. I do not care about other faults but to abuse me in a public street is to me "stepping over the line"

I think too part of the reason stems from the innate culture, for instance, in asia most countries, it is condone and totally acceptable to abuse and yell at people in public places, whilst this kinds of incident do happen in western countries, it is an exception when it happens in western countries, but in Asia it is almost an everyday affair. As MMM puts it, she often hears chinese people quarelling all the time loudly when she was growing up, this seemed to be the norm.

We need to look at ourselves and know that these sort of behavior irritates and annoys people and need to stop and not be passed from one generation to the next.

[Kikuchi]

I have not said asians are perfect, infact what you said is a fair representation of a group of asians. However you have been making it sound like most asians are like this. Except you are always saying how asian is crappy this, crappy that, and unless you live in fantasy world, you'd be coming across foul non-asians as well. I don't know about you, but I come across other coloured people with more things that are worth whinging about on a public forum.

I'm not siding with the harrasser, I'm just standing up to the fact you blow things outta proportion when it has anything to do with asians. Actually, you blow everything outta proportion all the time.

And about your incident, the way you handled it was fail. Taking that $100 is pretty asian of you. First thing first, you should have asked for his parents, rather than stand around looking at the scary crazy asian with your mouth open. Even if it was just for an apology. Failing that, police should have been called, to sort it out, once again, even if it works out to be only an apology, that way you'd be setting an example to us fail asians what should be done at an accident. The last thing you should have done is take the $100 and let them walk off, because now, you just seem like a typical stingy bastard, out to terrorise a kid just for some dollars. And if you couldn't react to someone raising their voice to you. Man up. You're a grown man, stand up for yourself.

I'm a short 20yo asian, and I've learnt to stand up for myself if I'm right, even if it's against a huge burly truckie.

[Apples]

This shit is getting retarded.......
It's a god damn ding.

[Palo Verde]

excuse me kikuchiz, you have no idea what it was like, all the passer bys all cantonese ironically was telling me to take the cash and leave, they did not once cared about the damage on my car but as most azn would do in this case, "its a small matter"
besides when someone is yelling at the top of their voice at you non stop, and I assume you know how irritating that can be in cantonese and loud enougn for the entire street to stare at you, I dare you to actually cut through that loud voice by shouting even louder than this man and following them as they walk away, what was I to do, ??? follow them home?

Which piece of legislation says they have to tell you where the parents are?

Which part of the law says you can stop these people from walking away from that scene?

Yes if I had my mobile phone there I would have called the police but I do not have my phone with me (it was at home) and no all the asian shops there suddenly refuse to let me use the phone, I asked but no one would lend me a phone to call the police. This shows how tightly knit the community is in relentless desire to stop you , the victim from seeking help.

No one would help everyone just stared at me like I did something wrong.

It was either take the little money or not only no money, but they just walk away and no one gives a shit. That's how azn people (at least that's how it all panned out) can gang up against you making sure u get no justice whatsoever.

Man, you were not there and from your description of yourself. I doubt you can cut through this loud mouth unwilling to reason with you type of cantonese man. your shouts would not be loud enough nor can you maintain that pitch so perfectly loud and continuously for over 30 minutes.

The other way to interprete this is this cantonese man blew it way out of proportion by abusing and yelling and cussing me when all I needed was details for insurance. But that's the way he chose to deal with the issue.


In restropect though, this man is legally not obliged to entertain me, he was not the person pushing the trolley, (at least I did not see it with my eyes) Neither was there any witnesses who would stand on record that they definitely saw the kid or this man do it.

So really what is there to stop them from walking away?

I know it is easy for someone listening to the incident to be director and producer and say you can evoke the powers of ISIS and Amenhotep to bring forth locusts swarmp, but really, you are just all talk, you weren't there and talk is just that: talk is cheap. it is bloody freaking cheap.

At the very least I did stood up to this man I did not walk away I lasted over 30 minutes trying to reason with him, and after 30 minutes of his loud irritating cantonese abuses, at least I know it was going nowhere and stopped wasting time.

[alkz]

i think i know what youre talking about alkz. and i think youre wrong.

Thanks Bradsey89!

What is with these people's attitude?
And according to Sallz, too she had an experience where the Asian culprit
This is so typical of that culture.
has proven to me cantonese people are loud mouth and yell at people unreasonably. That is a fact.

Ok first things first, this is a public forum, you can't simply go around generalising an entire group of great people. You have no proof that all Cantonese are loud mouth. 3 experiences, 2 from yourself and one from sallz is not enough to be able to call an entire race loud mouth.

And what's this racist shit? Geez

It is when someone thinks their heritage is superior to another.

from someone who really doesnt understand racism.

Thanks again Bradesy89

I do not want to play their game and stoop to their low level. They're supposed to be good citizens abide by Australian way of life and learn how things are done here.
need to return to where they come from where screaming shouting and yelling and uncivilised behavior akin to 3rd world countries is an acceptable means to resolve problems.

Suggesting Cantonese/Asians are low level people?

one must always remember, it is not a right to live in a host country, it is a priviledge and this was approved by immigration on the basis of you know what your resposibilities are when you chose to accept the responsibilities of living here.

At the end of the day an Australian citizen is an Australian citizen, which means Australia is not a host country.

these are the things this group of people need to improve on.

Are you implying that azns are such perfect beings that they have nothing to improve on? far from it. some of the worse behaviors are displayed by them most times.
rude azn but unfortunately they are everywhere, this is something they need to improve on, manners and respect for others.

PV who are you to decide what a group of people need to improve on? There are Asians on this forum, but none as rude as yourself.

however I did say Cantonese as I was specific
the innate culture

I have decided to do this in short story format so members can build up that momentum and feel the anger also.

What exactly are you trying to do? Brainwash everybody so they can all be like you?

what is with cantonese people loud mouth and dramatic

What is with you PV?

Especially with this mad cantonese cussing loud mouth man

My Gawd, this man was carrying like tens of thousands in $100 bills in his waist bag, I was so stunned, even passer bys paused to look at the loot he was holding, even the little boy was stunned. I could not believe people would walk around the streets carrying that much cash!

What are you trying to say about how he got the money?

( pv is not cantonese thank u)

Dearest PV, you are a grown man, do you seriously need to open a thread about a stupid little dent you got from a kid one tenth of your age? Like that thread you opened about how Melbourne is more dangerous than Sydney, I mean wtf? When will the forums see an end to your rants and complaints?

And for crying out loud can you not re-mention that you were yelled at for the 8342250th time?

[blink_me192]

PV man up and accept that fact that your car got dinged by a trolley. Was it your fault?? NO. Did anyone say it was your fault?? NO

Did you get abused? according to you, YES. And you got sympathy from everyone who bothered to read your post. Was it wrong that you got abused? YES and NOONE has refuted that.

You jsut have to realise that people are going to be like that whether you like it all not. Just cop it on the chin, get your car fixed up and be happy that it wasn't something more.

Be a man PV, grow some balls, accept that your car was damaged and get over it.